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So this is my latest dilemma do I ask The Frenchman for financial support to bring up Little Dude?
It is a difficult one because, on the one hand, if I do, then it effectively keeps him to some degree involved in our lives for the next twenty years.
If I don’t..well, at the end of the day he is a thirty-six year old man, and up until last week when he said he did not want this child and asked my why I didn’t have an abortion at six weeks, he had always fluctuated between wanting to be involved and not. As well as the fact that he came over here to see him & then encouraged me to go to France.
A son isn’t like a car, you can’t do a bit of a test-drive for a few weeks and then decide whether you want to be involved or not-he is a life-long commitment.
To be decided…
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